I often think of the little girls with crooked pigtails and wonder who their teachers are. Do they notice their broken hearts? Are they restoring faith in these children to believe life can be different? Do they tell them you aren’t defined by your current circumstances?
I hope so.
Of course, my soul always feels the kindred spirits in my midst. It takes me no time at all to recognize them; it’s as if our hearts speak to each other without consulting our minds.
My hopes in this life are unrealistic; I wish so badly that all children had a mommy and daddy that showed them how valuable they were. I wish that no child would ever have to wonder if they were worthy of living or worry about being a “mistake.” However, that isn’t the case in this thing called life.
The truth is, everyone wants to belong. We all long for that sense of being viewed as something precious, something special, something of worth. However, little people who lack this basic emotional need, search for it and often come up empty-handed. Sure, some people tell them sweet things “you’re pretty,” “you’re special,” but their actions are far from fulfilling. We have students who face similar situations. They need us to restore their faith in humanity–piece by piece. In fact, many times, we (as educators) are the missing piece for the little lives placed in our realm of influence. My second-grade teacher was my missing piece, and I’m ever grateful.
I want to be that for those I serve.
Their “hope” piece.
Their “you are an overcomer” piece.
Their “I’m your cheerleader” piece.
Their “unconditional love” piece.
They are worthy.
Heck, YOU are worthy. No matter your past, no matter your current situation, no matter your choices–good, bad, ugly. No matter who your family is or isn’t. No “one thing” defines your entire existence. YOU have a purpose in this life, and your presence blesses the world.
I heard this song today and couldn’t help but think of all of the “six-year-olds” out there that might be sitting in our classrooms doubting their value. As educators, let’s never let that be the case in our schools. Overtly point out the talents and strengths of these little (and big) people. They need to see what we see and be encouraged to overcome. Will their scars stick around for a lifetime? Most likely. However, we all deserve to feel valued. We are all worthy of unconditional love and a sense of belonging. Let’s do our part.
Are you the missing “hope” piece for someone you serve?
